I have been asked by many people “So, Gray, what did you think of BOLD?” It’s usually asked in a sort of secretive way, kind of like in middle school when a Penthouse was being passed around the guy’s locker room and you’d wink, nudge your buddy. I understand the need for secrecy; there was a lot[…]
There’s a lot of things you don’t do as a dominant. You’re not supposed to play when you’re angry. You’re not supposed to let the bottom goad you into anything they want more than you. You’re not supposed to lose control, ever, because you are responsible for the scene, responsible for everything that happens therein.[…]
So, Gray, what’d you think? That’s the question I’m getting a lot this morning, somewhat to the detriment of the work I’m trying to get done now. I’ll say more later, but for now, I can say that I am very, very impressed with what the producers from Part2Pictures and Lisa Ling herself put together. It really[…]
I was honored to be present at the leather history panel at a recent WOOLF event. In that panel, at one point, one of the panel members pointed at me and said “You’re in leather. What does it mean to you?” The answer I gave was as stammering and inadequate as any would be when facing that level of[…]
In an online conversation with a dear friend, he commented offhand “You know, I’ve made so many bad decisions when I was horny…” Like most good friends, I heartily agreed. And then suddenly it occurred to me that I’ve never heard the opposite said: “I’ve made so many great decisions when I was horny…” And it[…]
Please tell me a little more about that. What does it entail? Well, the basic idea is that you can make it as formal or informal or as dirty or innocent as you like. So informal would be you saying “Gray, here, have a cigar…” and handing me one at just the right time. Formal[…]
I made some references a while back to some “shooting” and “filming” I was doing in Baltimore. At the time I was prohibited from talking about what I was doing, but with the release of the following “teaser” video, it can be revealed: I wasn’t shooting so much as being shot by a documentary team[…]
Recently there was some rather abrupt relocating in my world, as I changed my residence from the Suspension Capitol of the World to the Bondage Capitol of the World. I’ve heard some interesting rumors about my reasons for the move as well as some of the other aspects of it, and I thought I’d address[…]
John Scalzi, who is swiftly becoming my favorite science fiction writer that I’ve never read, wrote a great slap-down on a poor schmuck who complained about all the cosplaying women who dare to call themselves geeks (to which most of his friends, btw, frantically waved their arms and whispered “DUUUUUUDE! Shut it! Chicks, yo?”). It’s[…]