Rope Bondage
Feedback on Graydancer’s Classes
“Easy, fast, and useful ties, as advertised. Exceeded expectations. Even people in the back were able to see. Gray demonstrated multiple times so that everyone could see what and how he was tying. Nice, loud speaker that didn’t mess around. Yay!” – Shibaricon 2010 Attendee on Graydancer’s “Tie ‘Em Up & Fuck ‘Em” class That[…]
Tying New York
It’s my last morning of a truly epic trip here in NYC. The community of sex bloggers, event organizers, kinksters, artists, sexologists, and more have been open and welcoming like you would not believe. Right now I’m spending my last morning at DGSolar & Violet‘s apartment in Brooklyn, after a pleasant evening talking about their[…]
[e]Lust 19
Photo courtesy of Emmy Welcome to e[lust] – Your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #20? Start with the rules, check out the[…]
Dangerous Rope
Remember how it used to be? Remember when her hands shook as you wrapped the rope, coil by coil, around her wrists, one at a time? Except it wasn’t rope, was it? It was a pair of pantyhose from her drawer. No, not her drawer, stolen from your mother’s drawer, the plastic egg container thrown[…]
Ropecast Interview with Peter Tupper
This podcast features: a Ropecast Vocabulary Primer, news about rope pride patches a discount code for Ropecast Listeners from MauiKink: GDTC15 for 15% off most things! Then it’s an interview with Peter Tupper, kink historian and author of the forthcoming “Innocent’s Progress” coming from Circlet Press (check out their steampunk erotica anthology “Like a Whisp[…]
A Response to the ARA List “Flag” Discussion
While the comments on this blog are WONDERFULLY welcome, there has been a lot of conversation about this elsewhere – for example, on Fetlife, and also on Jimi Tatu’s “Adult Rope Arts” List. While this was a post to that latter group, I feel it might have some benefit to the larger discussion, so I’m[…]
Rope Pride Flags (proposed)
Well, that was fun. My goal when first posting TopKai’s flag was first and foremost to see what people thought. I had hoped for either general disinterest or perhaps some discussion about stylistic elements. I got some surprises. The biggest surprise for me was not that a lot of people – people who I think[…]