Graydancer Recommends: Dia Zerva on Real-Time Bondage

One of the great pleasures of going to Shibaricon was finally getting to meet my long-time crush fellow former-Marine-kinkster Dia Zerva. I had a great discussion with her and her partner WordMan. The two of them are pretty much models for how couples can communicate and work through the issues of sex work, and I[…]

Yummy Creamy Goodness from Canada

Ah, those Canadians…how I do love them. From the co-creator of my book Kumir to the Control Enthusiast to my bubbly, vivacious, friendly, and bane-of-my-ankle roommate from Sex 2.0, Alpine Subdreams. You may remember her from the Car theme with a toy car suspended from her labia. Now we have something else: a lovely rope-y[…]

More CREAM

First, a couple of pictures courtesy of Percival, RiggerJay, and BendyYogaGirl: Getting the theme? Of course the songs and bands of the same name would come to mind. In fact, that was NovemberLuvr‘s entry: We were going to submit an interpretation of Cream’s “Sunshine Of Your Love” for the current ropecast gift cert lottery. But[…]

Back From Beyond Leather & Into Car Bondage!!

It’s been a busy couple of weeks, and there’s no slowing down. At Beyond Leather I taught what is probably the worst-delivered class of my life. I mean, when the subject is Military Style Bondage, and you forget to wear combat boots, it’s pretty much over. My apologies to those who sat through it, and[…]

All I needed to know about rope bondage…

Here is another entry in the Twisted Monk/Ropecast giveaway. Ill be posting some fantastic photos erotica too, but this essay is pure poetry… ——————————- All I really need to know about rope bondage I learned from driving a shitty car… If something doesnt work right side up, it probably wont work upside down. If its[…]

1st Entry for 2nd Twisted Monk/Ropecast Giveaway

And so it begins: phase two of the $50 Giveaway for Twisted Monk rope. A tragic tale, in my mind, one to rival Kings Christine or even a Hasselhoffian epic. Whatever your thoughts, it qualifies, and yours could too: pics, movies, interpretive dance or prose…if you dont play, you cant win. And if you dont[…]